BEAUTY or INTELLIGENCE ????

[kavya345]

Part of the episode..

When Gopi sir put a question..
How many of u (Boys) here would like ur life partner to be a Beautiful girl or An Intelligent girl .. ???

Most of them told that they would prefer an Intelligent girl rather than a beautiful girl..

How many of u agree with it????

[hplunafan]

Part of the episode..

When Gopi sir put a question..
How many of u (Boys) here would like ur life partner to be a Beautiful girl or An Intelligent girl .. ???

Most of them told that they would prefer an Intelligent girl rather than a beautiful girl..

How many of u agree with it????

Anybody would agree to that kaavya,beauty is not everything,anybody can be beautiful if they take care of themselves right,beauty at the end of the day is not just a pretty face and an hour glass figure.

To survive in today's world we need to be intelligent and smart,we need beauty and brains,but beauty is not a very important thing,our inner personality will reflect outside.
I am going to be blunt here,I have a friend,not a very close one but a friend who is not what you would call a beautiful person but as a person she is one of the lovely people I have met in my life so far.

All that glitters is not gold....I have expericienced it myself.

[kavya345]

Anybody would agree to that kaavya,beauty is not everything,anybody can be beautiful if they take care of themselves right,beauty at the end of the day is not just a pretty face and an hour glass figure.

To survive in today's world we need to be intelligent and smart,we need beauty and brains,but beauty is not a very important thing,our inner personality will reflect outside.
I am going to be blunt here,I have a friend,not a very close one but a friend who is not what you would call a beautiful person but as a person she is one of the lovely people I have met in my life so far.

All that glitters is not gold....I have expericienced it myself.

Totally agreed with u dolly...
Beauty is not in face, but beauty really lies in ones heart
Well, a beautiful smile could always make anyone or everyone beautiful..

But,
To a boy, when he chooses his life partner.. Beauty plays a major role..
Majority of them prefer a beautiful girl to be their wife rather than an intelligent girl.. I have seen in many cases where boys reject the proposals only for the matter that the girl is not that beautiful!(Still dont understand wat beauty acc to them is :rolleyes: ).. Even though the girl is well educated, mannered , and offcourse a intelligent girl... Well for them the beauty of heart doesnt matter.. all they look is for a Beautiful face .. (Acc to my experience)

[veeran]

Totally agreed with u dolly...
Still dont understand wat beauty acc to them is :rolleyes:


Haven't you heard, beauty is in the eye of the beholder ;)

[Mikema]

yes some of men prefer intelligent women rather than a beautiful but dumb gal............... intelligence???...can somebody define me???? :confused: if u think that having good marks @ school , having a high I.Q or being recognised................. is being intelligent .....................then it's simply non-sense!!!
As far as beauty is concerned................. it's so temporary...and can be destroyed by time or by an accident...
IMO if a guy selects his wife according to her beauty factor ...well it is to be understood that he is not very intelligent... and will be fickle-minded as soon as he sees another so-called beautiful woman...
To my mind a man or a woman should select their life partner according to their personality...and should love each other regardless of beauty, intelligence, wealth, education etc...I think such a mate will be very rare to be find........................

[Bakoda]

if a gal sooooo intelligent....avlo thaan....
atha head weight nu soluvaanga...:D
intelligent konjama irunthalae pothum...anga beauty irukum...;)

[Mikema]

if a gal sooooo intelligent....avlo thaan....
atha head weight nu soluvaanga...:D
intelligent konjama irunthalae pothum...anga beauty irukum...;)

same appplies to boys but avungelukku verai peru irrukku ............EGO nu soluvaanga!:p

[Bakoda]

same appplies to boys but avungelukku verai peru irrukku ............EGO nu soluvaanga!:p

Ego ponungaluku varatha??? nee Kushi padam paarkaliya??? athula Jo-ku ego irukumae....:D

[Mikema]

Ego ponungaluku varatha??? nee Kushi padam paarkaliya??? athula Jo-ku ego irukumae....:D

Jothika character is an exception !!!adhu............romba spl annai ponnu(yennai madhiri nu sollelam...........:D chumma sonnen!!!)

[Bakoda]

Jothika character is an exception !!!adhu............romba spl annai ponnu(yennai madhiri nu sollelam........... chumma sonnen!!!)

:(:D:rolleyes::eek:

[hplunafan]

To my mind a man or a woman should select their life partner according to their personality...and should love each other regardless of beauty, intelligence, wealth, education etc...I think such a mate will be very rare to be find........................

beautiful mikema akka,
You have spoken out what was on my mind...I dont think we can ever find somebody like this........I hope that someday you willl

I dont think I ever will!!
hehe

[hplunafan]

But,
To a boy, when he chooses his life partner.. Beauty plays a major role..
Majority of them prefer a beautiful girl to be their wife rather than an intelligent girl.. I have seen in many cases where boys reject the proposals only for the matter that the girl is not that beautiful!(Still dont understand wat beauty acc to them is :rolleyes: ).. Even though the girl is well educated, mannered , and offcourse a intelligent girl... Well for them the beauty of heart doesnt matter.. all they look is for a Beautiful face .. (Acc to my experience)

This happens mostly in arranged marriages,chosing your life partner according to his/her looks.Its not just the men who reject,its even the girls wh o reject at times because of not very good looks.
Being a beauty with no brains is of no use and can be a problem in the future for the couple who will have to face different obstacles of life but being intelligent and having a nice personality is enough to make and ugly person(by looks) beautiful.

[hplunafan]

Part of the episode..

When Gopi sir put a question..
How many of u (Boys) here would like ur life partner to be a Beautiful girl or An Intelligent girl .. ???

Most of them told that they would prefer an Intelligent girl rather than a beautiful girl..

How many of u agree with it????

by intelligence,
it is the common sense and not the educational qualifications

[kavya345]

Ego ponungaluku varatha??? nee Kushi padam paarkaliya??? athula Jo-ku ego irukumae....:D

jothika kalyanam kutti nu santhoshama settle aythanga avangale yen inge ilukureenge? :D :D Pavam vitudhunge.. ;)

[kavya345]

by intelligence,
it is the common sense and not the educational qualifications

Yeah dolly .....
Intelligence is not the educational qualifications..
Because today we can see cases where they BUY certificates and degree's also .. :rolleyes:

Intelligence,
it is ones capacity to understand , reason , plan , judge.. etc...

Intelligent also is knowledge about the worldly things..

[kavya345]

This happens mostly in arranged marriages,chosing your life partner according to his/her looks.Its not just the men who reject,its even the girls wh o reject at times because of not very good looks.
Being a beauty with no brains is of no use and can be a problem in the future for the couple who will have to face different obstacles of life but being intelligent and having a nice personality is enough to make and ugly person(by looks) beautiful.

yes.. !!

Its even girls who reject the proposals..
Oru paiyanuku yappadi Dreamgal nu irkangaloo , appadiye thaan ponnugalukum.. they too have dreams about their life partners and .. they too want their partners to be like Sharukhan and hrithik roshan or their own favorite celebrities.. :D :D ,

But girls compromise.. It majority of the boys who stick on to the factor that Yes my partner should be like Trisha .. asin.. etc.. etc.. :D :D

[kavya345]

IMO if a guy selects his wife according to her beauty factor ...well it is to be understood that he is not very intelligent... and will be fickle-minded as soon as he sees another so-called beautiful woman...
To my mind a man or a woman should select their life partner according to their personality...and should love each other regardless of beauty, intelligence, wealth, education etc...I think such a mate will be very rare to be find........................

So true mikema... :)

[kesaa]

I like intelligence girls but in a same time beauty should be part of it.. beauty is how we look everyone.. Aishwarya is not a beautiful lady for everyone.. i hate her beauty. its my point of view.. Ennaku Intelligence girl thaen pudikum cuz incase if i made a mistake in my life.. my wife is there to fix me..I dont like to depend of other people other then my wife! if both studies family should run with a lot of happiness. For me My wife should be intelligence.. intelligence mean not only in studies also in how should she manage the family etc... everyone saying how padicha thaen intelligence.. thats bullshitz.. guys are intelligence in studiess but when its come to life.. vaalkai... guys do make mistake.. but wife take them as their mistakes and she handle it as her own mistakes and fix it... its happen in so many families..

but show la there is a girl who sitting in front wit red top.. what a girl she is she? She didnt allow him to speak.. she didnt understand what he said.... and on top of everything, she is using filthy language in a public reality show which is being witnessed by millions of people.. she is the best example for all what these guys are saying.. the guy is very polite and true to his words but this girl was going nuts! These kinda girls end of in divorce. Even if she cant handle the guy the how da f is going to handle the husband???

and some guy were telling how his wife should be.. thats bullshitz... he is still in 1920's.. Not its 2010 almost.. everything should change as generation change... poo pottu etc hahaha... anway its his own point of view...

I PREPARE HUSBAND AND WIFE SHOULD BE INTELLIGENCE...

[shakshi]

But girls compromise.. It majority of the boys who stick on to the factor that Yes my partner should be like Trisha .. asin.. etc.. etc.. :D :D

yes, 100% girls compromise.. most of the girls prefer a guy who s honest, trustworthy n lovabale........but some guys prefer only beauty.....there r many exceptions too..

[Eka]

beauty of course, intelligence can be nurtured and learned...

but damn plastic surgery costs heck of a lot. :-D admit it!

[Acchu]

When it comes to marriages guys are looking for beautiful girls than intelligence....But noone seemed to accept this truth on the show....... And there is preconception among many guys that intelligent girls are arrogant.....thats not always true!! Only an intelligent and a smart girl can handle a family properly....

[itzjai]

If its love marriage there is no question ur partner is the most intelligent and most beautiful/handsome person in earth.

As someone said all these beauty/intelligent selection process ellam arranged marriage ku than. Since we don't know anything about the other person we need something as deciding factor. Let it be looks or education or job in a mixed ratio.

Its 100% true that compromises are made by girls. For eg. I had to resign my job when I got married. But in a way I am also benefited that I got to watch each and every development of my kid. Those moments will never come back.

But at the same time girls should also accept that the family burden goes 100% to the boys even if the girl is working or not. Not in the financial aspect but the mental pressure is more for them.

PS: But I think the highlight of the show was when the girl asked "Summa kenna mathiri irunthuttu respect pannu na panna mudiyuma. ". I busted out laughing like anything.