Sugeetha
March 14, 2008, 12:18 PM
hi,
For the first time I saw your program yesterday. It was really good and useful.
About India Culture:
I want to share my opinion, see today our India has covered a big sheet on it from other countries as we are best in Culture but it is a showoff. Actually India is not best in Culture when compared to Foreign Culture. In foreign they are open type because of which there is no child rape or adult rape or old lady rape. But here we are cheating ourselves using the word "Culture" which lead to all kind of rapes. Even a 4 year child is raped, Is this our culture? What is the purpose of it? Everyone wants to live perfect life but not able to live in this society. So better accept the fact and live openly.
If a man has the controlling power then there will not be no rapes in our country. No 4 year child calls for sex life. Only man spoils our India Culture. In our country we say "Man is one step higher than women" but they don't have eligibility to say this sentence.
So, Sex should be legalised both for men and women but not specially for men.
Culture Meaning:
I am a Tamil Girl and I know the meaning of Culture. Culture means a man has live for his women and women has to live for his man. But any one is like this, no! The Proveb says "oruthanakku orithi" not "orithikku oruthan". When girls can understand and respect this proveb then why man not doing this? No women wants to live with already used man. If a man wants her woman to be virgin, why women ask the same?
All girls will have a dream that her husband should virgin and for that only she starts waiting for him for a long time not leaving her to any wrong life and controlling herself. Why boys are not thinking in this angel?
You said a sentence in your program that "Aambalinga pavum". It's not correct sentence actually womens are crused. No one wants to live a prostitute life, only thing situation changes them because money or security.
Husband and Wife relationship:
You said in your program that a man needs a wife only for to take care of him, his family members, to give birth for his child, washing cloths, cooking etc and wife has to do all this then only she is considered as good. Whats this? Wife too has many dreams about her husband and family. She wants the first thing is "Her husband to be virgin, sincere and caring throughout the life", but now-a-days its not their. Trust is not their in marriage life, adjustment is not their which leads to divorce. If each of them believe on them and be sincere then their relationship will be evergreen. Equality must be given to each other opinions.
Finally, I want to say that it is better make man to understand the culture rather then women as they are taught by parents from childhood but not to a man. If parents has the ability to bring up their sons to be good, discipline, understand the value of women then ofcourse there will not be any rapes particularly and marriage life will also be fine. It totally depends on Parents hands.
Regards,
Sugeetha E
For the first time I saw your program yesterday. It was really good and useful.
About India Culture:
I want to share my opinion, see today our India has covered a big sheet on it from other countries as we are best in Culture but it is a showoff. Actually India is not best in Culture when compared to Foreign Culture. In foreign they are open type because of which there is no child rape or adult rape or old lady rape. But here we are cheating ourselves using the word "Culture" which lead to all kind of rapes. Even a 4 year child is raped, Is this our culture? What is the purpose of it? Everyone wants to live perfect life but not able to live in this society. So better accept the fact and live openly.
If a man has the controlling power then there will not be no rapes in our country. No 4 year child calls for sex life. Only man spoils our India Culture. In our country we say "Man is one step higher than women" but they don't have eligibility to say this sentence.
So, Sex should be legalised both for men and women but not specially for men.
Culture Meaning:
I am a Tamil Girl and I know the meaning of Culture. Culture means a man has live for his women and women has to live for his man. But any one is like this, no! The Proveb says "oruthanakku orithi" not "orithikku oruthan". When girls can understand and respect this proveb then why man not doing this? No women wants to live with already used man. If a man wants her woman to be virgin, why women ask the same?
All girls will have a dream that her husband should virgin and for that only she starts waiting for him for a long time not leaving her to any wrong life and controlling herself. Why boys are not thinking in this angel?
You said a sentence in your program that "Aambalinga pavum". It's not correct sentence actually womens are crused. No one wants to live a prostitute life, only thing situation changes them because money or security.
Husband and Wife relationship:
You said in your program that a man needs a wife only for to take care of him, his family members, to give birth for his child, washing cloths, cooking etc and wife has to do all this then only she is considered as good. Whats this? Wife too has many dreams about her husband and family. She wants the first thing is "Her husband to be virgin, sincere and caring throughout the life", but now-a-days its not their. Trust is not their in marriage life, adjustment is not their which leads to divorce. If each of them believe on them and be sincere then their relationship will be evergreen. Equality must be given to each other opinions.
Finally, I want to say that it is better make man to understand the culture rather then women as they are taught by parents from childhood but not to a man. If parents has the ability to bring up their sons to be good, discipline, understand the value of women then ofcourse there will not be any rapes particularly and marriage life will also be fine. It totally depends on Parents hands.
Regards,
Sugeetha E