Trust --- The Huge Meaningful Word

[towhid]

Hmm! Well while posting in describe ur best member thread i noticed a big discussion abt trust. The discussion was abt whose mom trusts him/her and whose mom doesn't. Why parents don't trust their children and what misunderstandings do they have abt children.
Well I bet every1 has got sumthing....sum story or sum facts to say abt this topic.
Zeenat, Tanjin and tanu plz post ur story again here:p

[ashka...]

hmm .. well ofcourse my parents trust me!!
well sumtimes parents trust thr kids but not de age.. which makes kids think dat parents doesn trust thm

[unaiza]

Hope no one gets bored reading my story......

First of all let me give u an introduction abt my story

I m the youngest in my family ..... was born 11yrs after my 3rd sis ....being a kid a got lots of pampering from my parents n sis ..... i always wanted to be a teenager i thought u get so many oppurtunities to do diff things .....
But now i know i was wrong ..... being a teenager my parents want me to know my responsibilites(though i know tht is good)......n my silly sis (i have got 3 sis all married) ... anything i dont do or do mistakes .... she always irritates me by saying "if u b like this after marriage ull have lots of problems"( if so is it necessary tht now too i undergo probs.....i mean thn my life wud be only problematic).....n thn i keep myself away from this dating thingy(i dont mind crushes though) coz if i do tht i think ill be breaking my parents trust .....n believe me my parents trust is the only one tht keeps me away from all this:)

n thn one more thing i dont rem who said this but someone was telling her mom doesnt even leave her to go with her frienz its the same wid me ..... infact she doesnt even allow me to go wid my cousins ,...n... not even to my best f house n more worse i dont have any friend even in my colony to go to their house:(

[towhid]

Hope no one gets bored reading my story......

First of all let me give u an introduction abt my story

I m the youngest in my family ..... was born 11yrs after my 3rd sis ....being a kid a got lots of pampering from my parents n sis ..... i always wanted to be a teenager i thought u get so many oppurtunities to do diff things .....
But now i know i was wrong ..... being a teenager my parents want me to know my responsibilites(though i know tht is good)......n my silly sis (i have got 3 sis all married) ... anything i dont do or do mistakes .... she always irritates me by saying "if u b like this after marriage ull have lots of problems"( if so is it necessary tht now too i undergo probs.....i mean thn my life wud be only problematic).....n thn i keep myself away from this dating thingy(i dont mind crushes though) coz if i do tht i think ill be breaking my parents trust .....n believe me my parents trust is the only one tht keeps me away from all this:)

n thn one more thing i dont rem who said this but someone was telling her mom doesnt even leave her to go with her frienz its the same wid me ..... infact she doesnt even allow me to go wid my cousins ,...n... not even to my best f house n more worse i dont have any friend even in my colony to go to their house

umm pretty cool story. I yawned twice while reading it:p juz joking....I think it was tanjin or zeenat who said it:rolleyes:

[sweet20]

its not like that parents donot trust their parents . they do but they r just protective. though my case is different actually . i dont live with them so they worried bout me in different sense . but actually yes i can say my elder bro with whom i am living does not . may be because the time has changed . he has take car of me . so as all elder bro are he is also over protective.

now coming back to relationship b/w parents and a child.
the bond b/w two is amazing . the unmisted luv of a parent, the naughtiness of a kid . though parents scold u whenever u cry they also cry but in heart. may be i am saying that coz i dont live with them . but believe me when i was living with them i also used to think the same way but it is not like that . a parent after scolding u or saying no they even atleast make u feel happy once again .

trust nowdays parents dont let thier child go out coz of changing time.they have an insecure feeling so totally u cannot blame ur parents for being like that . very rightly said by ashka they dont trust ur age. i think we all r belonging to same age group - teenagers. parents do think we r not sensible enough.
though we r thats what we everybody think ! isnt it ?

[unaiza]

umm pretty cool story. I yawned twice while reading it:p juz joking....I think it was tanjin or zeenat who said it:rolleyes:

its not a story its the reality of my life:rolleyes:

[unaiza]

its not like that parents donot trust their parents . they do but they r just protective. though my case is different actually . i dont live with them so they worried bout me in different sense . but actually yes i can say my elder bro with whom i am living does not . may be because the time has changed . he has take car of me . so as all elder bro are he is also over protective.

now coming back to relationship b/w parents and a child.
the bond b/w two is amazing . the unmisted luv of a parent, the naughtiness of a kid . though parents scold u whenever u cry they also cry but in heart. may be i am saying that coz i dont live with them . but believe me when i was living with them i also used to think the same way but it is not like that . a parent after scolding u or saying no they even atleast make u feel happy once again .

trust nowdays parents dont let thier child go out coz of changing time.they have an insecure feeling so totally u cannot blame ur parents for being like that . very rightly said by ashka they dont trust ur age. i think we all r belonging to same age group - teenagers. parents do think we r not sensible enough.
though we r thats what we everybody think ! isnt it ?

well said ....... totally true

[towhid]

its not a story its the reality of my life:rolleyes:
oh i noe that. But u said hope no1 gets bored with my story:p

[phatgurl]

hey towhid post ur story...lolz...

[~zeenat~]

i always wanna b able 2 trust my mates but wenebver i do they don't da wrong thing!!!lyk do wat i told em not 2 do. so dats why i trsut u more dan my real proper friends. i can trust shaz alot aswell. ma mum doesn't even trust me dats why i don't luv her as much as i luv other ppl!!!!!!

i dont have bf n i dont dooooo dating!!!!!ok!!my aunt saw me walking wiv dis guys on da way bak from skool n she told ma mum!!!4 dat stupid little fing she doesn't trust me. i woz only walking!!!!4 gods sake i wasn't close 2 him n i wasnt holding hands!!!i hate my aunty 4 telling ma mum!!!afta dat day ma mum doesnt trust me n i know it!!!!!

n i wont date~~~ i trust otha ppl more than my mother

my dad doesn't realy get a say in all this!!cos he trusts me!!:D



IVE COPIED MY STORY FROM DAT OTHER THREAD WHERE DA DISCUSSION STARTED

[phatgurl]

Hmm! Well while posting in describe ur best member thread i noticed a big discussion abt trust. The discussion was abt whose mom trusts him/her and whose mom doesn't. Why parents don't trust their children and what misunderstandings do they have abt children.
Well I bet every1 has got sumthing....sum story or sum facts to say abt this topic.
Zeenat, Tanjin and tanu plz post ur story again here:p

well wat happned to tanu? anyways heres my stupid story...


ok my dad n me r enemies foreva...lolz...its lyke dis jk between me n my dad...dats how close...cuz we kno wat our family is lyke in dis house so we always try to cope togetha...no will understand...anyways yea...and i always make him buy me stuffz...dats part of the enmemyship...an now to my mom...well she doesnt trust me or my dad or my 9 year old sis...loolz...its jus a lil thing...i dunno how i cud explain all dis cuz u might be thinking one thing but im tyrna say one thing...anywho me n my sis...well she is the mosst annoying gurl in da world...literally...ask anyone....lolz...dats y i call her scruffy...cuz its a dogs nme...n she lykes dat nme hahahahhaa....im evil...

[hg_fan]

my parents trust me to a certain limit.

[sweet20]

well tanjin i replied . my case was not b/w trust with parents but with my elder bro who lives with me. my parents trust me coz they dont stay with us .

[phatgurl]

well tanjin i replied . my case was not b/w trust with parents but with my elder bro who lives with me. my parents trust me coz they dont stay with us .


awww oh yea i read it...well it obvious ur bro really cares about u cuz sume bros ussually jus want leave dr sibs alone n do nuttin...well i wud say ur lucky...

[sweet20]

lucky .... ? my parents dont live with me. do u think i am lucky ?
well in the bro type of thing in india the elder bro i have seen r progressive bout thier sis not protecive.

[towhid]

well wat happned to tanu? anyways heres my stupid story...


ok my dad n me r enemies foreva...lolz...its lyke dis jk between me n my dad...dats how close...cuz we kno wat our family is lyke in dis house so we always try to cope togetha...no will understand...anyways yea...and i always make him buy me stuffz...dats part of the enmemyship...an now to my mom...well she doesnt trust me or my dad or my 9 year old sis...loolz...its jus a lil thing...i dunno how i cud explain all dis cuz u might be thinking one thing but im tyrna say one thing...anywho me n my sis...well she is the mosst annoying gurl in da world...literally...ask anyone....lolz...dats y i call her scruffy...cuz its a dogs nme...n she lykes dat nme hahahahhaa....im evil...
was it a story. Trust me if it was then I cudn't find the starting of the story, the main thing or the ending:D :D

[phatgurl]

who said imwz writing a story lolz...:D

[towhid]

who said imwz writing a story lolz...:D
u said: "well wat happened to tanu. Anyways here is my stupid story and then bla bla bla bla" :D

[phatgurl]

well all my stupid stories are not stories lolz:D

[~zeenat~]

da fact dat i known dat ma mum dont trust me is seriously annoyinnn!!!

[meghana_12]

ofcourse they trust me.... :D

[~zeenat~]

ofcourse they trust me.... :D



wat do u meen?????of course????

[phatgurl]

mayb cuz all moms ussually trust der children...well actually it depends on wot kind of trust r u talkin about...my parents wud neva even tink about the boy one...

[arbaz]

my parents trust me tooooooooooooooooo much